The
proposal did not go quite the way he planned it to…
Nervous/Scared
DFJ + Impatient Me = Heartbreaking Argument
So,
we went on a walk to get some air and I ranted about the possibility of a
breakup and gave DFJ a lecture on how no one is ever ready for anything and how
jumping into the unknown is just a part of life… all the while crying and
looking like a mess. We somehow ended up at our special bridge, which is the
bridge that we ran to the first day we met at running club and the same bridge
that we have trotted on so many times after that. When we got to the bridge, he
stopped me from walking and made me look at the new moon. He asked me to smile
the way the moon was smiling and I remember looking up at it but unable to
smile because my heart was breaking.
Everything
that happened after that was a blur… I was a jumble of emotions and shivering
cold. DFJ asked me to marry him and my initial response was, “Are you joking?”…
I really thought he was but then he fumbled through his shoe pocket, pulled out
a Hope Trollbead (which kind of looks like a ring) for my charm bracelet, knelt down and said some very nice things about exploring the
world together (and if you’ve been reading this blog you know we have hiked,
camped, rafted, kayaked, and cross-country skied all over the Northwest). I still
couldn’t believe what I was hearing but I said yes! Of course, yes! And heck,
yes! He then told me that we would pick out the engagement ring the next day. At
that point, what just happened did not sink in right away… my brain was numb
with cold and I was upset-confused-happy at the same time.
We
ran home to fight off the cold while I clutched on the Hope bead for dear life. The whole time we were laughing and talking
about what just happened, like little kids who just got away from doing
something naughty.
As
soon as we got back into our warm haven, champagne was popped open and some
beers were consumed while we made a fancy dinner to celebrate the next chapter in our
relationship.
We
looked at rings the next day at a local jeweler and found a style that I liked.
But we waited to see what Portland had in store since we were going there for
the weekend. I am glad that we waited because we found the perfect ring at a
charming jewelry shop downtown. The husband-wife owners, David and Ronnie, of Malka Diamonds and Jewelry were very nice and helpful. We had the best time learning
about diamonds and shopping for something that holds so much significance. I
love my ring and can’t stop staring at it and imagining the good things that
are yet to come!
We
stayed at an Airbnb close to the Alberta neighborhood and got a nice feel of
what it’s like to actually live in Portland. Our lovely hostess, Michelle, owns
The Peoples Yoga and I got the chance to go to a great class at the
Killingsworth studio (one of the perks for staying at her house).
Here’s
a rundown of the restaurants we went to:
Yakuza
(NE 30th Ave and Killingsworth) – Amazing Kobe burgers and very good
sushi! I love the dim, sexy, cozy interior, and the picnic bench style tables.
Aviary
(Alberta) – Fancy-schmancy… we only ordered one dish, a drink, and a dessert
because everything is muy expensive… but everything we had was pretty darn
good!
Extracto Coffee Roasters (Killingsworth) – Great neighborhood coffee shop with delicious
coffee and yummy treats from local bakeries around Portland.
Cha’ba Thai (Alberta) – I had one of the best curries in this restaurant. We ordered a
beef and squash curry… the beef was perfectly tender and the curry was so
well-flavored! I also loved the colorful plates!
Sizzle Pie (Industrial District) – Great pizza by the slice in downtown Portland. It
was the perfect spot to grab a bite right before we went to DFJ’s rock concert
(Coheed and Cambria and Between the Buried and Me).
McMenamin’s Kennedy School (NE 33rd Ave) – Think: Old elementary school
converted into a community center/hotel with a theater, a brewery, bars, a
restaurant, a gym, a soaking pool, and function rooms. Pretty awesome!!! We had
some good beers and a grilled cheese sandwich after the concert at The Boiler
Room Bar.
TheWaffle Window (Alberta) – Super cute waffle shop on Alberta with delicious
waffles!
Wolf and Bear’s (Mississippi Ave) – A food truck tucked in an alley somewhere on
historic Mississippi Avenue. They make really delicious falafels with local and
organic ingredients!
El Inka (48 NE Division, Gresham) – An unpretentious Peruvian restaurant in a
small strip mall with great food. Everything we ate reminded me of the food
that my mom cooked when I was growing up. Simple, homey, and delicious!
We
had a wonderful time and are looking forward to so many more to come!
Cheers to
us!
Oh my goodness!!! Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you!!
ReplyDeleteI read your first sentence, and my heart started beating as though it were happening to me. That's awesome, Yay!!
It sounds like you had a fantastic few days, a huge cheers to you guys :)
Clearly I'm a little behind on my blog reading- CONGRATULATIONS!!! That's so exciting! And I'm a little jealous of your Portland weekend, since it looks like you guys did a lot and had some good food! Best wishes for a wonderful engagement, enjoy the time- it flies by too fast. And I can't wait to read more about wedding planning!
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